COME CLOSER

An evening for gay men who want to experience themselves consciously and intensely…

Once a month, we dedicate an entire evening to exploring desire – alone, with others, and as a group.

How the Evenings Flow

We meet in a safe, respectful, and carefully curated space.
The evening is structured in several phases, with relaxing sauna breaks in between to warm the body, release tension, and rekindle the energy.

We begin with a consent & communication practice so everyone can clearly express what feels good – and what doesn’t. This creates safety and clarity for all interactions throughout the evening

What Awaits You

A full evening devoted to conscious erotic energy.
In a protected and mindful setting, we explore the art of building, increasing, holding, and flowing sexual energy together.

COME CLOSER blends bodywork, intimacy, and erotic connection with breath, touch, ritual, and healing presence. Between sessions, the hot sauna invites you to cleanse and relax. A Space for Mindful Pleasure This evening is for all gay, queer, trans, or cis men who want to experience desire more consciously – curious, playful, and connected. No prior experience is needed – just bring yourself, your body, and the willingness to go deeper.

Who Is the Evening For?

For all gay, bi, queer, trans, or cis men who want to experience desire more consciously – curious, playful, respectful, and connected.

This event is designed for you if you have attended Gay Love Spirit events in the last two years (a weekend workshop, a retreat, a festival, or several Tantastic! evenings) and feel ready to go deeper during this special night.

If you have never been to a GLS event:
You must be able to communicate your desires and boundaries clearly, both in conversations and during play. You are sensitive and respectful of the boundaries of others.
Before booking, please contact the evening’s facilitator (via email, Telegram, Signal, or WhatsApp) for a brief conversation.

What to Bring

Any toys or items you wish to use (please clean them thoroughly).

Why This Format?

Many men experience sexuality in a reduced way – goal-oriented, fast, or performance-driven.
COME CLOSER offers a space to enjoy desire without pressure – with curiosity, presence, and playful depth – beyond apps, clubs, or conventional darkrooms.

This is a chems- and alcohol-free event, allowing us to play with full presence, a clear mind, and an open heart.

Additional Information

Our experienced facilitators (Luis Rodrigo, Artjom, Thomas, André) create a safe and loving space with presence and open hearts, and are happy to accompany you through the evening.

Further details and what to bring can be found in the PDF on the right.
We look forward to welcoming you!

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